Bumps and Grinds involves stripping, drinking, and candlelight. How to play: Give each suit a sexy meaning: hearts represent kissing, diamonds equal a massage, clubs signify hands-on stimulation, and spades are oral.The number on the card represents the number of seconds each sexy act should last. Why: This exciting game of foreplay will make you move at a teasingly slow pace that will leave both of you ready for more.Why: Most busy couples have foreplay down to a science, or rather, a routine."Time Bomb" refocuses you on the pre-game show, the part that used to be so much fun before you lived together. Why: Not being able to see during sex has two major effects—it dramatically increases both sensitivity and psychological vulnerability.
Variation: If you don't have bedposts, you may be able to tie your wrists to some part of your headboard or tie them together over your head or behind your back.
So don't play this game if you're using condoms or a diaphragm.